I still own my own home and still maintain it financially on my own. I dont want to be this way. I have been with my boyfriend/fiance for 3 years. We were looking at houses to buy to move in together we were going to be together… Then all of a sudden last Friday night he meets me and tells me that he doesn’t have time for a relationship. No one cares how much the ring costs. Practice saying “Just So” every time you feel the pain. At first it felt like bliss until I slowly started to realize that he doesn’t pay rent or bills and even though he works he only pays for his car payment and a few little things for our house hold needs. Giving advice isn’t my strength – I never feel comfortable telling people what to do. I am almost positive he videoed me as his proof the breakup was not his fault, I was to blame. But he left and he never spoke to me again. If your boyfriend or husband doesn’t want you to be with people who are important to you, then he isn’t loving you in a healthy way. Don’t i give him what he wants ? Money, him cheating. I do however feel like we live very seperate lives. He is married in Mexico, but has been separated for 13 years. I’m lost , I told him to leave because I feel in my gut that he is lying again but called him to return baling my eyes out. He doesn’t look at me the way he used to be. Do your part and show him the feelings and experiences you both once loved are right around the corner. But I get back up again stronger than ever. Well he came home last night. 52 comments . Many women are asking questions like Does My Husband Still, Love Me Signs, and My Husband Doesn’t Love Me Anymore What Should I Do. Best of luck. I was born without him and have made many accomplishments in my life. Here is a list of national resources and hotlines that provide anonymous, confidential information to callers. I’d do anything for him ,like I walked on my injured hip just to spend time with him countless times but I feel like if his hip or legs hurt he would tell me that we should either hangout inside or just not at all. I dont know how to move forward and let go of his betrayal and my hurt. What’s that all about ?we are going on a cruise next year and he’s still fine with that I’m confused . He teaches the sons to take theirs wives for granted and theirs daughters to just live with it. Im struggling with myself because things are not moving as fast as I want them when I want them. The problem is he doesn’t love me. And only one of us ended up doing that. Today, based on survey responses we collected, we identified the top 9 reasons why men don’t say “I love you.” 7 Practical Examples of Trusting and Following Your Intuition, 5 Ways to Cope When You Don’t Want to Go Home, When You Aren’t a High Priority in His Life: 3 Steps Forward, How to Leave a Man You Love – But Can’t Live With, Comfort and Healing After Your Husband Leaves You for Another Woman, How to Emotionally Detach From Someone You Love, How to Convince Someone to Give You a Second Chance, Travel in Faith: Tools & Tips for Travel That Transforms You. We don’t talk much he doesn’t care how I’m fairing . I’ve already isolated myself from all my family and friends because I don’t want to be honest about my marriage and embarrass myself and my family. Thank you Melissa… I am happy to know I am not alone. Your not crazy mad or all the other things his called you . I ask him if he still love me . Stay encouraged. I wrote a long text and of course was insulting him too because it made me feel better. Remember, their actions, not their words, will tell you everything. oh my goodness why dont you leave him??????????????? I’m scared for you. I feel scared because i can’t just leave without having a job. One more, how does her making those calls help me feel loved & protected? he comes hom at 19:00pm at night then i must go vath so ge can bath then he goes to his room laying on the bed on his phone and laptop expects me to warm up our supper and bring it to him in the room there he eats and leave his dirty plate and glass on the side bed cupboard. What if his daughter finds out about me? Are you staying with a man who doesn’t love you because you believe you don’t deserve better? I just had a gf lay into me the other day about self respect that I should think enough of myself blah blah.. that’s super sweet… what about supporting your friends… I guess that’s not an option… I think like I am going to start doing being into myself… that’s where I need to be not with these losers…. God I don’t think I can sleep well tonight having read this! That still voice you mentioned has been talking to me and I have not wanted to face it. He says he loves you so much he can’t stand to share you with other people. Sunday night I went to sign on Facebook and it brought up that he was in a relationship with a girl. I love my boyfriend so much. BE STRONG! If you notice that the two of you just keep quiet in the house while you’re doing your thing and he’s doing his, that’s just a signal of the beginning of the relationship problems . I don’t know if he’s lying to you, but I think YOU know. He says your relationship is enough, that you and he don’t need anyone else. This is another sign that might not mean things are over if he’s going through lots of tough stuff in his life. I an ready to start again and need all the assistance I can locate. We had a phone relationship for almost 5 months before meeting and when we finally did it was like pure magic. He runs off when he comes home on weekends talks to a 17 year old little girl that does all his habits. So i sent a long text since he is always on his phone for him to tell me he didnt even read it. I got upset and left, he and begging and I let it go. Men are never too busy when they want someone. It’s already been 3 years and she keeps asking to come to his house. He self sabotaged I’m sure blames me cause then he can call it off. He doesn’t really hit me but the 80 pounds and all the strength he has on me can not stop him when he chokes me out and it happens so fast I can’t stop it. Because she had no use for it if she wasn’t always getting something out of it. Dear Author, I really love the way you connect your readers to God, being the center of every realtionships, of everything. That is partly the reason. P.S. My earning was much way beyond him.And still he said bad thing about me, that i wasnt a good wife, dont respect husband and am a bad mother and not happy living with me. It’s a tough pill to swallow but it is what it is. Every day that passes now, my resentment and inability to hold my sharp tongue lessens, as does his ability to hold back his obvious snickers and back handed compliments. Your not happy, clearly. Therefore, let’s take a look at why some people fall out of love. It was the hardest thing i ever did,but i managed to pull through it and at first i missed like crazy but i stuck with my guns and stayed away. I had asked my boyfriend to stop watching porn for about a year and focus on me and he agreed. I’m sorry but it’s over. Feb, 2016. As time went on he began going to church with me, introduced me to his family, and professed his love for me. I’m so heart broken. 1. He is not the same person who you married he has changed cause he was bitten by that homewrecker and gambling. MORE: 7 Signs He Doesn’t Love You Anymore. Let me just say that there has been problems from day one. our first date. Take heart. What color paint or beds we want for the girls. Maybe im more scared of myself giving up before i even give it a real chance. Maybe your boyfriend doesn’t listen to you, or your husband hasn’t “dated” you for years. I’m thankful for the stories I have just read through – makes me feel that my feelings are rational-which I have been told for years, they are not ! It’s also setting your boyfriend or husband up to fail. Especially if we pick the right person to marry in the first place. I have no support my parents. I have no job and I’m going to school to become MA. Millions of men across the world who fall out of love with their wives usually start coming home late or spending more time away. "I really love you." Men tend to usually one sided until it’s done back to them. It did hit home, I wasn’t mad. People do what they feel is best for them and most of the time it’s not personal. We dated 19 yrs ago. I don’t know what to do. If you’re seeing signs your boyfriend doesn’t love you, then you know he’s not the perfect guy for you. It's frustrating, disappointing and worrisome when the man you married stops expressing his undying love and devotion for you. I had to change my password and deactivate my Facebook again. Since that has happened I have been looking up things about abusive men, and all of the signs add up. We have gone our separate ways several time, we keep coming back to each other.. And I don’t want to do any of this anymore. A week late I went to visit him for a day at his dads house. Because of my actions! He tells me that isn’t going to happen but I have nothing yet to provide me that security. How could he not love me anymore? There was no sparks. She must be suspicious, like I am. He always encouraged me, he loved me and my kids more than his own. God loves you deeply and would never send you signs He doesn’t love you! We truly believe that love is in what you do, not always in what you say. But to her, I needed to be making more. I don’t trust him. I even finished my master degree (i remember when i decided took this degree he said i am so selfish and donot worth to take master degree). I am angry, disgusted and most of all broken hearted. And he never has. Your peace, strength, and energy will not only help you Blossom – it affects everyone around you. I don’t know if my ex loved me or not. I’m so broken right now. This is wonderful advice and you write beautifully. I definitely can say what the facts are. You might be too available. I guess this is because she is so close to me, I didn’t even think about how I was communicating. I just truly don’t. How low can you go. It’s dark at this time. If your boyfriend or husband betrayed you – by lying or cheating on you – then you may wonder if he actually loves you. So, I will go to my grave a sinner, but that man will not put me in an early grave. All of a sudden he’s not replying to my texts blaming his phone and we used to talk and text everyday on the phone all this had stopped . Most men cheat and as our society changes, most women will too. Been married for 7 years together for 8 years have two children with him and one from previous relationships he told me many times he with me for the sake of children he calls me fat ugly I have lupus but I’m a lot better of than ppl who are worse than me he abused me so much I don’t go out he wants sex but like it when he wants he never told me he love me he scared me he earns but I didn’t get penny I never been fifty birthday or anniversary present never treated me just humiliated I been close to end it all but I realise he doesn’t love me at all as I was broken divorced with a child from previous marriage I been suffering anxiety s attack panic attack I can’t sleep we not share room for past 5 years but I’m just here to have sex I will disgusted at myself I can’t think for myself I take medication to sleep. I love him so much I want it to be that I’m insecure and crazy.. soon I’ll leave. I don’t think he loves me anyore, he told me I should go to gym and workout, this is not how you should love someone. How can we fix this? I am hurt still but more confused than anything. I thought that he loved this and all the other parts. Therefore I was to blame. This is the foundation of a healthy love relationship. Or maybe he really is telling you lies, and maybe you keep believing him because you’re scared to be alone. This is only when he on Vacation. I can’t tell you what you should do, but I have recently written an article that might help: How to Survive a Loveless Marriage Whatever you are looking for can only be found the the life and love of Jesus. We have been in a couple of fights whereby he posted a girl on his status and told me its his cousin but you know my instincts were just telling me another thing I asked him to remove it he didn’t. I love him enough to let him go. This is an unhealthy, dangerous routine of an abusive man. My husband is saying its him says loves me but he’s unhappy i need intervention.please So he decided to let his own son go but I stopped him bc I wanted to help him. Do you know that YOU are the prize? I meet this man 7 years ago way back when I was still high school.I did everything to make her my boyfriend but we have this complicated turn in our relationships because I really felt that he doesn’t loved me and he just courted me because he knew that I like him since from the start. I am the one initiating conversations but get stonewalled and short clipped answers. We have lived together over 3 years. That broke my heart. I’m so scared that he will just be ok with it and all these years together would have meant nothing. The helplessness and frustration of loving someone you hate can create serious problems in your life. Go figure! He thought I was cheating on him. As long as I don’t expect intimacy, physical hugs, kisses, etc I don’ think too much about it. He doesn’t allow me to go to his place of work. He proposed to me before a year, paid 8k cash for the ring. And yes, looking back, I can identify all those 8 signs. Mother moved in w me after my separation & her never ending neediness for me to keep her company, entertain her, & make sure her minimal health needs are organized. Problem is he won’t accept that we should break up but instead he says he loves me. They will adjust at a new school with a living mother. Saying "I love you" for the first time is a huge deal. But his behavior helped me to decrease my respect for him, because I thought I deserved better treatment after everything I invested. Hes called me any everything vulgar and humane ss well as talked to and treated. In the best-case scenario, he doesn’t love you anymore and doesn’t want to include you in his life. He never bought food. Anyways, one day he was on the phone with a friend and the friend contacted me to see how I was because he heard him being abusive to me. I’ve lost friends family and adult children are so disappointed and mad that I’ve neglected every other relationship in my life to try to hold on to the string of my marriage that was left…even though nothing I do would ever change how he now feels about me – how does someone just stop loving someone overnight???? We used to always talk about buying a house and goals, what we needed to do or want in our lives as a whole. Pull way back. To him, you always come second. He is a compulsive gambler. Men really don’t care about who their significant other talks to? I’ve tried to catch him for a year now but he’s just too sneaky. Mom’s nuture. Be strong. He respected every request I made. I never said I don’t love you. I am 27. He stayed that is enough. I explained how much it hurt me for him to watch it because of a previous relationship that was abusive and how it involved his addiction. You would say: "It can't be true! When people are newly in love, it’s natural. Many people who are no further in love may have trouble expressing physical intimacy. Learning how to cope with the pain of rejection and and move forward in your life isn’t easy, but it the healthiest thing to do when a man says he no longer loves you. Do you have any advice for me? I thought to myself, is that all! Why? i love him but i cant go on like this i can feel i had changged i dont smile i am lately always grumpy id rather dtay at work then go home. I’ve been with this guy for a year and a half now and I’ve been noticing things here and there that just seem to bother me but I’m unsure if they’re worth worrying about. It’s just such a sad reality that we never realize what we have till we lose it. This relationship is just killing me slowly. To him that was proof I was cheating. I just don’t feel anything now. Sometimes my spirit screams for Him. 5 Ways to Survive the Healing Process, How to Stop Loving Someone Who Doesn’t Deserve Your Love. Hold on! Shattered How Do You Forgive Your Husband for Cheating While He Was Alive? All of it makes me nauseous & anxious. Yes i know that. He always ignores me and never wants to hang out. I knew we had big problems and I was doing my best to fix my part of them. All I do is cry whenever I see him. Love is patient, love is kind, and most of all, love scares people. Or him to make me happy and SHOW his love, and he used to. They can answer questions and perhaps even give you advice. But if he/she still repeats these words, then maybe he/she doesn't love you anymore. Reading your story had my heart pounding for you. There is apparently nothing that brings you together. I do not want him around but he has no place and money to go. He told me when I was halfway to his house that he did not want me to come. I’ve gotten used to the fact that he doesn’t love me so I like another guy, he likes me but knows I have a boyfriend and i don’t want the guy I like to move on but I don’t know what else he would do. You know your boyfriend or husband, you know your relationship, and you know when something isn’t right. he really doesn’t deserve your loyalty. He had just returned from a … I join him while he was studying in Malaysia. Sorry you sound so lovely, far too good for this loser!!!!. Rinse and repeat. It is a vicious cycle. By Michelle Keldgord on August 20, 2015. And for God’s sake, don’t pretend. It’s painful and heartbreaking to even consider the idea that your boyfriend or husband isn’t in love with you anymore. I know some of you will say that lack of communication doesn’t mean that he doesn’t love you, but a woman’s gut is something you should never neglect, because in 99.99% of cases, it’s correct. And now he’s doubting everything and even saying he doesn’t love me fully. I think I know who I am and why I expect from a man in a relationship. She doesn’t respect herself and I’m left to pick up the pieces when she finally gets dumped by her latest boyfriend. But the worst part he is a coward he would never confront it.. I realized he doesn’t love me the way I need to be loved. So, we did. I’m desperate. I sometimes believe I married the son of Satan. Here’s what a wife wrote on one of my articles… Read More »How to Love an Emotionally Unavailable Man, Tips to help you cope with feeling neglected and lonely when your boyfriend doesn’t have time for you. it’s not a relationship anymore.he has been’super busy’ for 3 MONTHS now. Please do so and move on with your life. Needless to say, if your boyfriend doesn’t love you anymore there’s a weird vibe he transmits onto you, and you feel it. Hi my name is tabitha . You need strength and prayers. I left a facial cleanser at his house last Sunday, and I really need it, but he’s making me wait until Sunday again and whenever I bring up these worries, he makes me feel like I’m completely physco, or he changes the subject or completely ignores me. I don’t know where my kids will go and he ignores them for the most part. You’re the one who seems to be stuck there. I meet him nothing happened we just sat and talked. He stopped working and applied for his own credit cards and used that for his gambling. What brought you here – why are you searching for signs he doesn’t love you anymore? Just found a new pic of another on his phone. :'[ what do i do? Maybe, it is me. I would get angry/defensive because she was not accepting the way I love her and expecting her to…initiate? One sentence suggests the person lacks the skills to swim and the other one suggests that the person is choosing not to swim. He said no. Your story has hit home. He was holding me down by my legs and I could feel my panic setting in and I smacked the back of his head thinking if he just let up on my legs I’d jump up and run out but he was so fast I couldn’t get up fast enough and he just squeezed my neck so hard I could feel snapping and I was trying to say please reaching for the wall and that’s when he said I am going to kill you do you understand me, I am going to kill you than he let up and tapped my cheek and laughed a little and turned the light off and said go to bed now. We weren’t having any problems, he showed me affection and I was showing my affections as well. If you want your man to start paying attention to you, start paying attention to yourself. I’m so sorry this has happened to you after what you’ve been through already.. My heart goes out to you. I was ashamed for not believing him the first time he said it. While in the earliest stages of the connection, several partners attempt to look their utmost. And he gets angry if I have an opinion on how to live his life everything is downhill me his mom and sister dont talk his sister daughter age 16 goes to then and discuss everything i do and say to them even my 9 yr old daughter is now doing the same. And now they’ve been together for 3 months as well. Good luck to all my sisters out there whow may have forgotten that they are Queens. I know what you frel but Im here to tell you it gets better. He’s a good man… but… I don’t know what’s happening.. The new baby is 8 months old and for the past 6 months or more, not really sure when or how it started. I was taught to help others just as God helps us. And that he will come back to me and I told him I’m not a backup plan. A person that loves and cares about you may wish to discuss these parts of life. I feel like I should leave, but now he is saying that he is sorry and will try to be the way a husband should be. We “dated” for 5 months and then moved back in together. That you have to jump through hoops for him it sounds like your self esteem is pretty low anyway and I suspect it’s all the ridiculous tests he expects you to pass lol please stop trying to please him and start pleasing yourself you owe him nothing get out of this now take care, Laurie, He stone walls me when I try to express my feelings about anything leaving me to bottle my emotions until they explode into tears. So much history together & he plays to the reminisce. It’s just I need romance and love, to be heard and supported. I spent one week with him in his country. He is kinda weird, doesn’t like taking calls, he isn’t very expressive and all. I lost my father in October. *sometime* in the future we would finally reconnect and enjoy each other again (my hope/interpretation). He refuses to meet my friends and if he is with me he determines a timeline on which I may spend with my family. If he doesn’t say it back, then perhaps he just doesn’t feel that way. If you’re struggling with this problem, this report will give you some responses that will help you resolve any lingering doubts you could be having. The same holds true for his children, he still takes care of them financially although they are adults. However, I have a tubal pregnancy… and I called him and asked if he could stop by so I could tell him in person. I stayed in black eyes all the time and just when one would heal he would give me another. He didn’t take me out even though my cousin said stay out as long as you want when I just was planning on the boyfriend and I going to walmart. However, I can respect someone a lot more if they will come to me and say, “Hey, I want to see other people” – ugh perhaps you would like a divorce first???? After 20 years of being alone, mostly content I fell for a man, (who doesn’t speak English although he can & understands allot,) who “fell in love with me” and was at my doorstep every day after his work. We recommend moving this block and the preceding CSS link to the HEAD of your HTML file. I used to think that, too, but I now believe I’m wrong. Because its gonna be a day that i can fine me someone else thats gonna love me better then my ex did. I’m not sure what to do bc I dont Want to leave him yet I dont Feel as if I’m happy anymore like I used To be. Among the warning #signs, your partner needs a divorce is when he isn’t interested in discussing issues that are affecting your marriage. He blames me yells at me even gets made when i talk to him . I just wanted to know if she really never tried to tell you. Phone Number: 800-826-3632. you re still young..many more will come .dont worey enjoy your moments. At least once or twice a week he and his Dad head to one of the many casino’s in the area and he does not come home until 3/4 am. Your partner’s aloofness may simply be his way of trying to get through a difficult time.”, #mc_embed_signup{background:#fff; clear:left; font:14px Helvetica,Arial,sans-serif; } Another thing I have issues with is the way I love. Leave, start over, and be free. There’s no thrill of the chase. I can’t wrap my head around it for 5-6 years, I’ve been mentally paralyzed by this. Too much texting means you’re not out living your life. “You need to use both wisdom and intuition to know when you can’t comfortable live with the status quo. I just felt dead inside because I knew I tried. I seek God and and seek him…I am just so afraid. I can’t do anymore, Your last sentence made me cry. coz it’s hurt he always shouted on me without any reason. You can then visit your mother, and so is he, can visit his parents. This may sound contradictory especially because I DO realize that God is love, but this relationship really took a lot out of me. Please don’t feel that I meant to say my situation was far worse or anything such , because I know you probably have so much more to your story, just as I have . I’m with him most likely everyday . Whether people agree or not. He's 17. My heart = she is the most beautiful and capable woman I know, what she heard = I must be talking about someone I work with ( She is a stay at home mom). And then from there hopefully you can gain the strength to face a world without him. I am a complete mess… bad enough everything I have been thru the past year alone and then this… I don’t know what to think what to do…. I came to a conclusion that he is just a lost soul who can’t be told anything and brings me down when he’s mad and I don’t need that anymore. If you see many of these Signs Husband Doesn’t Love You Anymore, just realize that you’re not alone. You could also feel that your husband currently has strategies, and yourself have the effect that he might be hiding something more. 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